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LonCon [Mar. 6th, 2014|08:51 am]
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I'm a bit disappointed to see Neil Gaiman's dismissal of objections to his friend Jonathon Ross MCing the awards ceremony, and his linking to an "explanatory" page from Rich Johnston, who feels that despite Ross's many relevant achievements (... a history of being un-PC and some parody comics?) he's "not good enough for the fans it seems, who fear the fact that he can also be an acerbic comedian ..."

I'd like to make a distinction between "acerbic comedy" and the idea that there's something inherently funny about women being sexual/fat/disabled/politically powerful, or, for that matter, that it's "transgressive" to say offensive things either to or about people.  It doesn't make you witty.  You're not heir to Oscar Wilde's crown.  You're basically manifesting the social skills of a toddler, and, well, it's a truth commonly acknowledged that they shit themselves on a regular basis.  Not the ideal hosts.

Why is this so hard to understand?
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(no subject) [Feb. 25th, 2014|02:11 pm]
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I'd like to congratulate vschanoes for her NEBULA NOMINATION for best novella for her astonishing "Burning Girls."

Go.  Read it. Marvel
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Jewelry, smugness, and other things [Jan. 6th, 2014|10:42 am]
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The other night, I went to a party.  It was a costume party (well, masque), hosted by three wonderful writers/editors, and it was held in the loveliest three story apartment, decorated with a different theme on each floor - masks, the forest room, the Red Room, you get the idea - and I was tickled to see old friends and catch up.  I sheepishly apologized to one for having dropped off the face of the internet two years or so ago, and he (normally the least sarcastic of men) said, "Sh'yeah, no kidding!"  So, a) good to see y'all at the party, and, b) good to see you, too, internet!  My resolutions for this year number among their counting: reading more Russian, silversmithing, silversmithing, silversmithing!, and participating in social media for the end goal of, y'know, being more social.  I genuinely feel like a dinosaur, outpaced by the quick mammals around me who managed to adapt to Twitter and the like: me, I'm swinging my lumbering head slooooooooooowly in the direction of whatever the Cool New Thing is, ruminatively munching on my tree leaves or whatever.  But since LJ has always been the place to share ruminations ....

The year's off to a good start.  We celebrated NYE with one of my former students and her partner, and one of my oldest friends and her new beau.  The night went swimmingly, but the day dawned with me and J suffering from a wretched cold that the baby had had for all of a day, earlier in the week.  We were ... less resilient.  But since then, I've, a) acquired a new treasure, b) smugly developed a workaround for its one drawback (see also, jewelry blog for details if interested), c) attended the aforementioned masque, d) cut the hell out of my thumb in the most karmically appropriate way possible, e) attended a friend's lovely birthday party, and, in short, managed to fulfill all of the resolutions except for the reading Russian.

Day is young, right?
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Pre-New-Year's-Resolution [Dec. 15th, 2013|04:47 pm]
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I need to use social media more, ya'll.

I miss feeling connected, not just to my closest friends, but my broad circle of acquaintances.  So, from here on out, I am going to try to PARTICIPATE one way or another - could be an LJ post, could be Twitter, will hopefully eventually turn into my figuring out a balance in my jewelry blog (too opinionated?  shilly?  self-promoting?  technical?  personal?  ARGH.), and might, maybe, turn into my figuring out how the hell to use FaceBook.

This counts for today, right?
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White stone day [Dec. 14th, 2013|11:33 pm]
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I've been doing more and more on the jewelry front, enjoying it more and more at every turn: today was a wonderfully productive day, with the picture-taking and the listing posting and the first order for one of my hand-made pieces (on the same day I posted the listing, which made me feel all warm and fuzzy).  It's ... odd ... almost, to look at my little Excel spreadsheet and realize I've made as much or more from the jewelry biz this year as I have from teaching, and I did the jewelry in my spare time, and mostly for fun, at that.  Methinks if it keeps on going this way, I'll be needing to reconsider the allocation of my time.

It's also interesting in that, as much as I'm loving having my own little business, oh, man, did I loathe working in the 9-to-5 jewelry industry (possibly because my boss was a dishonest little man with a bad Napoleon complex).  Brief takeaway, personal and otherwise, kinda ramble-y to followthe cut.Collapse )
What it comes down to is that "work" now feels like a combination treasure-hunt/research project/craft session.  That's ... pretty cool.  :)

P.S. - I still love teaching, new perspectives on critiquing the field aside, and doubt I could ever give it up.  But during finals grading, my alternate lifestyle is even more a boon - I'm not procrastinating or malingering, I'm working.  Would that I'd thought of this during college ....
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Still aten't dead [Dec. 2nd, 2013|06:42 pm]
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Wow, it's been a long time since I've posted.  Oddly enough, it's not for lack of interest: I still tend to read LJ almost every day, for that sense of faux bonhomie and pseudo-involvement in the lives of people whom I like (even when I'm kinda turning into The Inadvertent Hermit).  It's not a choice: it's more a side-effect of, a) raising a toddler, b) teaching and trying to keep a foot in academia, and, c) trying to start a business.  Even a small one.

So how am I finding the time to write this - and during the end of the term, no less?  Why, my in-laws are in town!

I love my in-laws.  Seriously.  No tongue in even the distant vicinity of cheek.  They're the first family I've ever seen that's well-adjusted.  They never fight.  You can show up late to dinner because of unforeseen circumstances, or even just because that catching-up-with-a-friend thing was so fun it ran over: they don't mind.  You can not like a given foodstuff: nobody guilt trips you.  You can need introvert time, even in the midst of a celebration, and they?  Nod agreeably, direct you to a quiet room, and make sure to press a wine-glass and a plate of hors d'oeuvres into your hands so you don't feel deprived. I'm sure my shock and awe at this sort of behavior says more about my family of origin than I might wish to reveal, but ... damn, people, that is some great role-modeling right there, and it came just at the time that I needed it to.

So, on this, their first day of visiting, I walked them to the zoo, waved goodbye, and got to knock all of my long-delayed errands out.  Tomorrow, I grade long-delayed papers, Wednesday I post long-delayed artisan-ry (is that a word?  normally, I know my words - I was ridiculously delighted to discover the new-to-me otiose the other day - but I'm drawing a blank on this right now) to the internets, Thursday I plan to write a long-delayed book review, and then, ideally, on Friday/Saturday/Sunday I engage in otiose leisure activities, familial and otherwise (see?  I KNEW it would come in handy).

Things I want to remind myself to write about in the near future, before they slip my mind: the baby's second birthday (and his occasionally weird cross-connections, like trying to figure out how my house-keys and my computer keyboard can possibly be related, or his having learned his alphabet, figuring out that letters correspond to sounds, and looking puzzled when I keep telling him that, no, A is not for Oberon, O is ... maybe he prefers the variant spelling?), the Manhattan Vintage Show and, relatedly, the Pier Antique Show, non-traditional family structures, the gleeful triumph of finding a book I'd been trying to hunt down ever since I read the first twenty pages in somebody's study during a wedding in Malmo four years ago, and the Best Student Excuses of the year.

But in the meantime, Imma going to go and have some delicious wine and a gourmet-quality dinner, courtesy of my MIL's home cooking.  Ah, bliss.

P.S. - Is it odious to be otiose?  If being otiose is wrong, then, baby, I don't want to be right. 
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On a completely different note .... [Oct. 3rd, 2013|12:41 am]
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The other night, Ellen Kushner very kindly invited me to the theater.  She knew an actress who was going to be starring in a play about Russian-Jewish emigres, and did I want to come?

DID I EVER.

Okay, ways in which this play won:

1) location, location, location.  Look, have you ever been to the Arclight Theater?  I didn't know the damned thing existed, and I live around the corner!  It's the nicest basement exit to a 1920s multiple dwelling that you ever did see (for context, mine, from the same period, inspired my movers to emit a heartfelt groan).  There are fairy lights.  There are couches. There is groin vaulting.  There are helpful signs telling you that, in fact, you are heading in the direction of the theater, and not some weird fairyland, or to a private party at which you will not be welcome.  The whole damned thing is painted by a naive artist of the Old Russian school, and it is awesome,  like your great-great-great grandmother's icon as interpreted in oil pastels.

2)  Look, I hate interpretive dance as much as the next girl, so I cringed a little during the opening number, but they actually made it work. There are two scenes in particular that stood out, one where a sheet held upright functioned as the wall and the railing of the train during rush hour, and one where the same sheet did double duty as, well, you know, a sheet, only upright, with the actors acting like people during one of those awful where-the-hell-did-THIS-come-from-I-thought-we-were-going-to-SLEEP fights (oh, don't play innocent, you know what I mean), only where they could pace and where even the actors holding/personifying the pillows looked vaguely embarrassed and like they wished they were anywhere-but-there.

3)  And this is the kicker.  Look, are you Russian?  Jewish?  Russian-Jewish?  From a culture that has that same validating-but-claustrophobic emphasis on succes=family sacrifice=success= ... well, you get the idea.  If you are, GO WATCH THIS.  It was like having dinner with my parents, which I know is no great recommendation, as you could probably actually have dinner with my parents if you asked nicely and come away well-fed as opposed to having [had your friend] buy[ing] theater tickers, but OHMYGOD THE INSIGHT.

Look, I thought it was just me.

And then I thought they must have been spying on my dad to have gotten it that note-perfect, when the father in the play looks at his son's suit, brushes off the lapels, smiles, and happily proclaims "GAH-vno!"  (which is Russian for, "OH, such CRAP!").  Dudes.  This is what my father does every  time I make a good buy.  It's endemic.  I actually made a bet with myself during the dinner scene that, nah, there couldn't be a long-winded toast - 'natch - or a bit where the folks weren't satisfied until the kids where harried - done - or where they proved my point about where I was glad I was an only child because they would have played both ends against the middle, like Crowley if he was a daddy (look, seriously, if they can split-i.e., criticize me for having a career/prioritizing my family, I can only imagine how it would have played out with another actor).  It was AWESOME, and only heightened by the degree to which they were spot-on with the Russian vernacular, mannerisms, family dynamic, etc.

What I'm saying is, if you relate to this even vaguely, go see "COVERS" at the Arclight.

Also, befriend Ellen, as she is awesome.  Hey, I'm just saying ....
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Oh, COME ON [Sep. 26th, 2013|12:26 am]
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So on Sunday, we had drinks with friends on their deck.

When we got home, I was violently ill, and I thought, "Man, I have become a lightweight.  TWO glasses of wine make me sick?  d_aulnoy, sometimes I think I don't even know who you are anymore."

And then it happened again.

And again.

And again.

Seriously, folks, white rice  doesn't even love me anymore.

Monday, I reorganized all of our bookcases.  Then I spent the evening shivering and shaking (and discovering that white rice was no longer my BFF).  Yesterday, I sat up, gagged, canceled classes, and spent the day fighting to marry half of an Egyptian revival peacock glass belt buckle to a Deco paste bracelet.  Victory was finally mine, but, damn, was it a long day of being shakey-handed.  Today, I feel more-or-less like myself again, but a kind friend bringing me soup didn't hurt ... and I finally felt well enough to get to my bench again.  I linked to my jewelry-blog post about pearl mesh, yeah?  Well, though one of the pieces fell through (pro-tip, when the watch guy assures you they're real because he did the tooth test ... don't trust him unless he's backed up by a trusted jeweler (he wasn't)), the other one arrived today and is even prettier than I'd hoped, a gorgeous Edwardian collar with a sapphire center and a hook for interchangeable pendants.  Figured I'd make a sapphire one in the design I've been experimenting with: mission accomplished!

Now, to go forth and do some class planning ....

P.S. - Quick shot of the happily married bracelet ....Peacock glass and deco bracelet united at last
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New post on jewelry matters up at Otherwise Engaged [Sep. 23rd, 2013|09:54 am]
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In which I speak of Pringles, french cuts, pearl mesh, and a hat with a fetching red plume.

Never rains but it pearls ... er, pours
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Sooo ... Ocean at the End of the Lane? [Jul. 28th, 2013|11:08 pm]
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I'm offline most of the time currently, but having finally read almost half of Gaiman's latest, I am filled with an overwhelming sense of WTF?

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